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RopeMarks, Japanese, bondage workshop 24 Jun 2012
May 15th, 2012 06:06 PM

This workshop will be in the Dutch language

We gaan weer een workshop geven; het gaat om een zogenaamde level 1 workshop waar we je de basis technieken van Japanse bondage (ook bekend als shibari of kinbaku) leren.

Datum : zondag 24 jun 2012
Tijd : 14:00 - 18:00 uur
Plaats : Amsterdam, centrum
Prijs : EUR 110,- per stel

Het is de bedoeling dat je actief meedoet daarom is de workshop ook alleen voor (gelegenheids)stellen. Bob doet iets voor op zijn partner en de rest doet het na op zijn/haar partner. Bob loopt dan rond om tips en adviezen te geven en vragen te beantwoorden. Verder vertellen we ook wat over de geschiedenis van Japanse bondage.

Het bedrag voor deze workshop is inclusief de vier uur durende workshop, gratis toegang voor een maand tot onze online workshop RopeMarks Artistic Rope Exchange (R.A.R.E.), certificaat van deelname en hapjes en drankjes.

Geef je op door zo spoedig mogelijk een mail naar bob@ropemarks.com te sturen, dan sturen wij je de verdere details. Vol is vol!

De personen die gebonden worden hoeven niet bloot (mag wel), de bondages kunnen ook gewoon over kleren heen om te oefenen. Zorg wel dat je dan wat makkelijks aan hebt, jurkje of broek, beetje strak truitje of t-shirt. Ondergoed mag natuurlijk ook. Er is geen dresscode, de meeste mensen komen in hun "gewone" kleren. Het is puur leren bonderen, dus geen spel spelen en geen seks. Het is gewoon een gezellige avond waar we bezig zijn met touw, ieder op zijn eigen partner.

Tot snel,
Bob
http://www.RopeMarks.com/ - The True Beauty of Bondage 
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http://www.ShopRopeMarks.com/ - Online shopping 
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http://RARE.RopeMarks.com/ - RopeMarks' online and real-life workshop

Club update: The Initiation of Lara Aimee
May 5th, 2012 07:55 PM

The Initiation of Lara AimeeWe love first-timers here at Club RopeMarks and we have one very special "specimen" for you, the lovely Lara Aimee.

Throwing her in the, RopeMarks, deep felt a little hars (yes, we do have a soft spot. Hidden well, but it's there :) so the amazing Dutch-Dame joins in for the uber-perfect duo-combination.

The images in this set are few, but with this duo there is still enough to look at.

RopeMarks on TV
May 2nd, 2012 01:38 AM

Here´s an excerpt from BNN's The big "Spuiten en Slikken" test 2012. There's a wiki on "Spuiten en Slikken" that clearly explains what the programs is all about "http://nl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spuiten_en_Slikken".

This excerpt shows you How Dutch-Dame, dressed in heavy rubber from DeMasK and tightly bound by RopeMarks, talks about Hollands number one fetish...

Download this video.

RopeMarks on BNN

For an, almost, compete list of RopeMarks on television visit this link "RopeMarks on television"

Art from yonder time...
May 1st, 2012 09:31 PM

Way back in 2006 I had the pleasure of having the lovely Ancilla Tilia enjoy my ropes.  I just found a nice art work from that series online

Ancilla Tilia Liberated

The original series can be seen here

Nawa shigusa (็ธ„ใ—ใใ•) - Rope manners
April 13th, 2012 07:59 PM

Recently I stumbled upon a post on FetLife (all hail FetLife :)) that I just had to share. The post starts with a few general manners from feudal Edo (now called Tokyo) and continues to translate these into manners of rope by the author Bingo Shigonawa.

Unfortunatly the English of Bingo-san is not too good at the moment so the translation of his text was done by the lovely Rida

Here we go, most Western people can learn from these insights...

Main Polite Gestures (ไธปใชใ—ใใ•)

Kasa kashige - Tilt your umbrella (ๅ‚˜ใ‹ใ—ใ’)
On rainy days, when passing another person, be mindful to not to drip water on them by making sure to tilt your umbrella outwardly (away from the other person).
:้›จใฎๆ—ฅใซไบ’ใ„ใฎๅ‚˜ใ‚’ๅค–ๅดใซๅ‚พใ‘ใ€ใฌใ‚Œใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚Œ้•ใ†ใ“ใจ.

Kata hiki (่‚ฉๅผ•ใ) - Pull in your shoulders
When passing another person on the street, make sure to pull your left shoulder toward the shoulder of the road (remember that you walk on the left side in Japan).
้“ใ‚’ๆญฉใ„ใฆใ€ไบบใจใ™ใ‚Œ้•ใ†ใจใๅทฆ่‚ฉใ‚’่ทฏ่‚ฉใซๅฏ„ใ›ใฆๆญฉใใ“ใจ

Toki dorobou (ๆ™‚ๆณฅๆฃ’) - Don’t be a Time thief
Showing up at someone's place without announcement, being late to an appointment, or actions that waste the other person's time are unforgivable sins.
ๆ–ญใ‚Šใชใ็›ธๆ‰‹ใ‚’่จชๅ•ใ—ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€ ็ด„ๆŸใฎๆ™‚้–“ใซ้…ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใชใฉใง็›ธๆ‰‹ใฎๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ๅฅชใ†ใฎใฏ้‡ใ„็ฝช๏ผˆ ๅไธกใฎ็ฝช๏ผ‰ใซใ‚ใŸใ‚‹

Ukatsu ayamari (ใ†ใ‹ใคใ‚ใ‚„ใพใ‚Š) - Be the first to apologize
Even if it was the other person that stomped on your foot, be prompt in apologizing: "I'm sorry, my distraction caused it". In this way the air will clear immediately and the good atmosphere will be kept.
ใŸใจใˆใฐ็›ธๆ‰‹ใซ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ่ถณใŒ่ธใพใ‚ŒใŸใจใใซใ€ใ€Œใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ ใ“ใกใ‚‰ใŒใ†ใ‹ใคใงใ—ใŸใ€ใจ่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒ่ฌใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€ ใใฎๅ ดใฎ้›ฐๅ›ฒๆฐ—ใ‚’ใ‚ˆใไฟใคใ“ใจใ€‚

Shichisan no michi (ไธƒไธ‰ใฎ้“) - 7:3 road
Don't walk in the middle of the street, but walk as if to occupy only 30% of it and leave the 70% for other people and emergencies.
้“ใฎใฉ็œŸใ‚“ไธญใ‚’ๆญฉใใฎใงใฏใชใใ€ ่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒๆญฉใใฎใฏ้“ใฎ3ๅ‰ฒใซใ—ใฆใ€ ๆฎ‹ใ‚Šใฎ7ๅ‰ฒใฏ็ทŠๆ€ฅๆ™‚ใชใฉใซๅ‚™ใˆไป–ใฎไบบใฎใŸใ‚ใซใ‚ใ‘ใฆใŠใใ“ใจ

Kobushi koshi ukase (ใ“ใถใ—่…ฐๆตฎใ‹ใ›) - Rise one fist high
In preparation for other people getting on the boat, be ready to move to create another place by keeping your body one fist high from the seat.
ไน—ๅˆ่ˆนใชใฉใงๅพŒใ‹ใ‚‰ๆฅใ‚‹ไบบใฎใŸใ‚ใซใ“ใถใ—ไธ€ใคๅˆ†่…ฐใ‚’ๆตฎใ‹ใ›ใฆๅธญใ‚’ ไฝœใ‚‹ใ“ใจ

Sakarai shigusa (้€†ใ‚‰ใ„ใ—ใใ•) - Don’t be oppositional
Don't start sentences with "But" and "However", as listening to the caring words of the elderly will aide you in growing as a person. However at times, your respectful actions might even provide enlightened to them.
ใ€Œใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ€Œใงใ‚‚ใ€ใจๆ–‡ๅฅใ‚’ไธฆใน็ซ‹ใฆใฆ้€†ใ‚‰ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„ใ€‚ ๅนด้•ท่€…ใ‹ใ‚‰ใฎ้…ๆ…ฎใ‚ใ‚‹่จ€่‘‰ใซๅพ“ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใ€ ไบบ้–“ใฎๆˆ้•ทใซใ‚‚ใคใชใŒใ‚‹ใ€‚ใพใŸใ€ ๅนด้•ท่€…ใธใฎๅ•“็™บ็š„ๅด้ขใ‚‚ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ€‚

Nawa shigusa (็ธ„ใ—ใใ•) - Rope Manners
The Good Manners of Rope by Bingo Shigonawa

Ashi ukase (่ถณๆตฎใ‹ใ›) - Rise your feet
Never ever step on someone else's rope. Most riggers care deeply for their rope and are very particular about it. Treating it with respect is expected, and stepping on it is truly rude and disrespectful.
ไป–ไบบใฎ็ธ„ใฏๆฑบใ—ใฆ่ธใ‚“ใงใฏใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€‚็ธ„ใซๆƒณใ„ใ‚„ๆ‹˜ใ‚Šใ‚’ๆŒใคไบบใฏๅคšใ„ใ€‚ๅคงไบ‹ใซๆ‰ฑใ†ใฎใฏ็คผๅ„€ใงใ€่ถณใง่ธใ‚€ใฎใฏๅคงๅค‰ๅคฑ็คผใ€‚

Nawa kotowari (็ธ„ใ“ใจใ‚ใ‚Š) - One word
As you are not to step on someone else's rope, you should also not touch it without asking for permission first. Even if you are driven by the good intention of helping tide it up, you should always check with the rope owner if it is ok to touch it.
่ถณๆตฎใ‹ใ›ใจๅŒๆง˜ใซไป–ไบบใฎ็ธ„ใซ่งฆใ‚Œใ‚‹ๆ™‚ใฏใ€ ไธ€่จ€ใ“ใจใ‚ใ‚Šใ‚’ใ„ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ€‚ไพ‹ใˆ่ฆชๅˆ‡ๅฟƒใง็ธ„ใฎ็‰‡ไป˜ใ‘ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ™‚ใซใงใ‚‚ใ€ ๆŒใกไธปใซ่งฆใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ„ใ‹็ขบ่ชใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ‹ใ‚‰่งฆใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ€‚

Shichisan no yuka (ไธƒไธ‰ใฎๅบŠ) - the 3:7 floor
When you happen to be tying in close proximity to someone else and share the same space, it is a good rule to focus on occupying only 3/10 of the space and leave 7/10 of the floor space to the others. If both parties focus on this, it will end up that both sides will be using exactly no more than half of the space and not interfere with each other.
ๅŒใ˜ๅบŠใง่ค‡ๆ•ฐไบบใง็ธ„ใ‚’ๆŽ›ใ‘ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€็›ธๆ‰‹ใซไธƒใ€ ่‡ชๅˆ†ใซไธ‰ใฎ้ ˜ๅŸŸใฎใคใ‚‚ใ‚ŠใงๆŽ›ใ‘ใ‚‹ใ€‚ ไบ’ใ„ใซใใฎใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€ ไบ’ใ„ใซๅนฒๆธ‰ใ—ๅˆใ‚ใชใ„ไบ”ๅˆ†ไบ”ๅˆ†ใฎๅ ดใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒๅ‡บๆฅใ‚‹ใ€‚

Hime or tono dorobou (ๅงซ(ๆฎฟ)ๆณฅๆฃ’) - Don't be a Princess/Bottom thief
Getting too intimate beyond necessity with a bottom (male or female) that already has a partner is a big no-no. At minimum, courtesy calls that contacts should be had after the partner has been informed and/or permission has been granted. And when applying rope, both sides’ permission should be received first.
ไธปใ‚„็›ธๆ–นใฎใ„ใ‚‹ๅฅณๆ€งๅˆใฏ็”ทๆ€งใจๅฟ…่ฆไปฅไธŠใซ่ฆชใ—ใใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏๅพกๆณ•ๅบฆ ใ€‚็›ธๆ‰‹ใŒ็ŸฅใฃใŸไธŠใง้–ขใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒๆœ€ไฝŽ้™ใฎ็คผๅ„€ใ€‚็ธ„ใ‚’ๆŽ›ใ‘ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏไธก่€…ใฎๅŒๆ„ใ‚’ๅพ—ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ€‚

Ukatsu ayamari (ใ†ใ‹ใคใ‚ใ‚„ใพใ‚Š) - First apology
In the event that rope has been applied without previous knowledge (and permission) that the bottom had a partner, do not blame the bottom but be prompt in apologizing to clean up the air.
็›ธๆ‰‹ใซไธปใ‚„็›ธๆ–นใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใšใซ็ธ„ใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ—ใพใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€ ็›ธๆ‰‹ใฎใ›ใ„ใซใฏใ›ใšใ—ใฃใ‹ใ‚Šใจ่ฌใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใใฎๅ ดใ‚’ๅŽใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€‚

Iiwake irazu (ใ„ใ„ใ‚ใ‘ใ„ใ‚‰ใš) - No need for excuses
Once the tie is done, don't start making excuses for its shortcoming. It gives a bad impression to the bottom. Accept instead the result with honesty.
็ธ„ใ‚’ๆŽ›ใ‘ใŸๅพŒใซใ€ใ‚ใ‚ใ ใ“ใ†ใ ใจใ„ใ„ใ‚ใ‘ใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„ใ€‚ๅ—ใ‘ๆ‰‹ใซใ•ใ‚‰ใซๆ‚ชใ„ๅฐ่ฑกใ‚’ไธŽใˆใฆใ—ใพใ†ใ€‚็ตๆžœใฏ็œŸๆ‘ฏใซๅ—ใ‘ๆญขใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€‚

Kami hiki (้ซชใฒใ) - Don't pull hair
Problems or other matter that come up during a tie and are not dealt with on the spot will fester and drag on. And will often get talked to unrelated parties. Issues should always be discussed on the spot without dragging them on. Don't act in ways that will "pull the hair from the back".
็ธ›ใ‚‰ใ‚ŒใŸๆ™‚ใซ็™บ็”Ÿใ—ใŸไธๅ…ทๅˆใ‚„ๅ•้กŒใ‚’ใ€ใใฎๅ ดใงไผใˆใšใซๅพŒใซๅผ•ใใšใ‚‹ใ€‚ๅฝ“ไบ‹่€…ไปฅๅค–ใซไผใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒๅคšใ„ใ€‚ๅพŒใซๅผ•ใ‹ใšใซใใฎๅ ดใงไผใˆใ‚‹ในใ—ใ€‚ๅพŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰้ซชใ‚’ๅผ•ใฃๅผตใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ“ใจใฏใ—ใชใ„ใ€‚

Ashi biki (่ถณใณใ) - Don't pull feet
Pulling someone's feet by dragging outsiders into a conflict born by envy and resentment, is not a welcomed behavior.
็›ธๆ‰‹ใ‚’็พจใ‚„ใฟใ€ๅฆฌใฟใ€ ไป–ไบบใ‚’ๅทปใ่พผใ‚“ใง่ถณใ‚’ๅผ•ใฃๅผตใ‚ใ†ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ€‚่ฟทๆƒ‘ๆฅตใพใ‚Šใชใ„่กŒ็‚บใ€‚

Onazi kusa (ๅŒใ˜่‰) - Same plant
No matter the sexual leaning, or preference, at heart we are all the same: humans. And like plants, even if stepped on, we endure and grow. However a plant cannot grow without roots (people) and leafs (people), and they both needs to be nurtured.
ใฉใ‚“ใชๆ€ง็™–ใ‚‚ใฉใ‚“ใชๅ—œๅฅฝใ‚‚ใ€ๆง˜ใ€…ใชไบ‹ๆŸ„ใฏๅŒใ˜ใ€Žไบบใ€ใฎๅฟƒใ€‚ๅŒใ˜่‰ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใ€‚่ธใพใ‚Œใฆใ‚‚่€ใˆใ€่‚ฒใฃใฆใ„ใใ‚‚ใฎใ€‚่‰ใฏๆ น(ไบบ)ใจ่‘‰(ไบบ)ใŒใชใ„ใจ่‚ฒใŸใชใ„ใ€‚ใฉใกใ‚‰ใซใ‚‚้คŠๅˆ†ใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€‚

Shigusa no michi (ใ—ใใ•ใฎ้“) - The way of (good) manners
Even with partners with whom we have built a bond and have feelings for, there will come the time to part ways. Moving on to the next stage without carrying resentment, holding a grudge, hating or blaming is the "way of good manners". Don’t focus on it as the end, but view it as a new beginning.
ไธปใ‚„็›ธๆ–นใจ็ฉใฟ้‡ใญใŸๆƒณใ„ใ‚„็ต†ใ‚‚ใ€ ใ„ใคใ‹ๅˆฅใ‚Œใ‚’่ฟŽใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚‹ใ€‚็›ธๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๅฆฌใฟใ€ๆ€จใฟใ€ๆ†Žใฟใ€่ฒฌใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใชใใ€ ๆฌกใฎ้“ใธ้€ฒใ‚€ใฎใŒๆ€่‰ใฎ้“ใ€‚ๆžฏใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€่‚ฒใก่Šฑๅ’ฒใใ‚‚ใฎใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€‚

Bingo-san has his own blog here (http://shigonawabingo.blog52.fc2.com) and can be found on FetLife here (https://fetlife.com/users/1158998). The lovely Rida's FetLife profile is here (https://fetlife.com/users/4074).

Quick and Dirty
April 9th, 2012 09:45 PM
Bondage Negotiations - the naked truth
April 6th, 2012 06:18 PM
Club update, Double Bill: The True Beauty of, Japanese, Bondage
April 4th, 2012 08:01 AM

Double BillThe new flyer and business card is out

The flyer and business card are both based on a hashira ushirodaki shibari. One balancing on one leg in a ballet boot and the other by a sakasa zuri by the knees.

The amazing Dutch-Dame is handling both very strenuous positions for your pleasure (and my flyer :))

The links:

Et Alors? Magazine - Special Edition
April 3rd, 2012 03:05 PM

Support the first flamboyant style magazine about fun, fashion, fetish, art, gay, literature, gender, culture, glamour and icons to create a special editon free-for-all magazine in honour of the Amsterdam Gay Pride this Summer.

More info: http://www.indiegogo.com/p/87305

Westward bound by Dutch Dame, the Fetish Doll
April 3rd, 2012 10:44 AM

An amazing Dutch-Dame, a shiny outfit by Westward Bound and a luxurious location, enjoy :)

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